*onions have layers*

And unfortunately so do people..

While there are many that fail to understand this, its notable that those who succeed are mostly those that manage to use the different layers to their advantage.. Good to the public but yet maybe a wife beater, not a uncommon thing, NUS graduate but pervert... how many times have we heard this? the sad news is that these few cases that come up do not show the actual amount that they are..

Layers of a person show a totally different side of someone and it takes someone used to seeing layers or used to see thru people to actually show the real person.. I do think i am a amateur in looking through layers and maybe thats due to me using so many layers to showcase me..what all these layers have taught me is people do not really care who that real person is as long the layer fits them..

A loving son who dotes on his parents, a layer the son creates yet the parents do not see the lack of self morale in the son...A lover who goes out of the way to please her loved one yet another half who finds it sweet but does not call it love..A friend who teaches and puts everyone first yet sees the selfishness for all that is cared about... A father who works his heart off but is never seeing an appreciative thanks.. I cld fill the pages and the space with examples but you get the drift and its not going to end...
Whats right is a collective group of people agreeing that its right.. But is it necessarily right?

What i wonder is why do people care so mch about creating layers and sadly why do people only prefer the layers but never delve in between the person and find the real feelings of a person.. When was the last time you wore something you wanna wear and not what you think is right for the occassion? when was the last time we bought a gift for someone that we wanted to instead of what they want??

And looks, the heart and the mind of a person makes the walking skin and bones tick but yet the skin and bones of a person mean so much.. I usually dnt bother styling my hair, wear wats comfortable than wats fashionable and i barely am noticeable..yet just one day i dressed up and i get alot of smiles and comments.... Strangers maybe but from people i know.. was i invisible just because i did not dress up? weird to see but yeah thats what this life is about..

Next time u wanna see someone whu truly cares about you.. wear something light dnt dress up and go out with the person.. It'll show you alot on that persons layer..i had alot of comments about me recently.. and while at first i laughed it off, at secod thought wondered, yet at third thought i wondered who the hell are you to tell me i need to style my hair or i need to do this or that.. and for seconds so whhat if i do not...